Incels are known to be spending lots of time online and constantly feeding off each other and certain facts and studies that reinforce their worldview of how they got the short end of the stick, are subhuman, etc. 

And with that in mind, it is understandable why they lose all hope. It's either LDAR (lay down and rot), suicide or ER (reference to mass shooter Elliot Rodger). 

I fully understand that mindset too. And I can totally relate to all their grievances about the world and life in general. I fully agree with their worldview on how looks are a great deal and how both women and men look down and disrespect the low status male. 

What I don't agree with though is their hatred because hatred is an emotion that stems from ATTACHMENT. Because you are so attached to this 3-D world that if things don't go your way you'd feel totally miserable. 

However, if you resist the urge long enough to commit suicide, for some reason as if something else beyond our mind and human comprehension... Seems to lead is towards the whitepill. Call it "God" or "Higher self" or what have you... 

When incels become whitepilled they stop thinking about relationships, and instead they focus on more important things, like improving their education or pursuing a fulfilling career. They also develop strong friendships and become more confident in themselves. Through self-care and self-compassion, incels can learn to appreciate and value themselves, which helps them reach their full potential.

The whitepill is essentially moving forward positively in life and realizing that relationships aren't the only thing that matters. It's about believing in oneself despite all the negativity and stigma from society. It's about finding peace and happiness regardless of one's relationship status.

It's also about not being dependent on others for happiness or fulfillment. It's about being content with who you are and what you have, and not seeking external validation or needing to "fix" yourself in order to be worthy of love. It's about accepting all parts of yourself—the good, the bad, and the ugly—and learning to love yourself, flaws and all. 

It's about being kind to yourself and others, and seeking to improve the world through kindness and compassion. By adopting a whitepill mindset, individuals can find happiness and fulfillment within themselves and help shape a more positive and peaceful world.

The whitepill is a philosophy of self-acceptance, self-love, and personal growth that emphasizes building healthy relationships, developing positive social skills, and cultivating a realistic and optimistic view of the world. The whitepill is about seeing the best in people as well as the flaws that make us all human, and learning to appreciate these dualities within ourselves and others. 

The whitepill encourages embracing both the physical and spiritual aspects of the human experience. It also advocates for a balanced approach to life that makes room for both personal and spiritual growth, as well as for compassion, empathy, and respect.